We are back from the last college drop off. They may end up in graduate school, and I’m sure they’ll move to new spaces and need help, but they’re seniors. This was the last time navigating the dorms and filling their under the bed boxes with backup toiletries and eating a have-a-great-year dinner at a favourite restaurant.

It’s pretty bittersweet.

I remember being sad on and off my senior year. Happy that I felt so settled with my friends. Sad that we weren’t going to be living near each other anymore. Happy that I really knew how to navigate college life. Sad that once I felt on top of things, everything was going to change again. I really loved college, and I’m glad the twins got to have positive experiences, too.

But the end will be hard. Especially not knowing what comes next.

On another note, this really is the 1000th Friday Blog Roundup. See here for the explanation. Happy 1000th Roundupaversary.

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Stop procrastinating. Go make your backups. Don’t have regrets.

Seriously. Stop what you’re doing for a moment. It will take you fifteen minutes, tops. But you will have peace of mind for days and days. It’s the gift to yourself that keeps on giving.

As always, add any new thoughts to the Friday Backup post and peruse new comments to find out about methods, plug-ins, and devices that help you quickly back up your data and accounts.

And now the blogs…

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But first, second, helpings of the posts that appeared in the open comment thread last week. To read the description before clicking over, please return to the open thread:

• None… sniff.

Okay, now my choices this week.

Dear John vents about a very frustrating situation with her late husband’s sister, but I loved this thought island in the tumultuous word sea: “I was angrily composing things in my head, and you were on my shoulder whispering ‘don’t bother. Let karma take care of it. Nothing you say will make a difference.’ It’s been a bit since you were actively advising me on anything, so it was nice to feel you with me.” I am so sorry that Dear John had to read his sister’s words and have them in her head.

Lastly, Slaying, Blogging, Whatever… has a tiny post (just 24 words) that intrigued me so much that I read those 24 words maybe 24 times.

The roundup to the Roundup: Happy 1000 Roundups. Your weekly backup nudge. And lots of great posts to read. So what did you find this week? Please use a permalink to the blog post (written between September 4 – 11) and not the blog’s main URL. Not understanding why I’m asking you what you found this week. Read the original open thread post here.

We have tried so many bathroom cleaners over the years, but I saw a YouTube video for a simple fix, decided to try it, and it actually worked. So I’m passing it along to you.

Take an empty spray bottle. (I used the bottle from a spray cleaner I just finished.) Fill it about a quarter of the way with blue Dawn. It needs to be the basic, original Dawn. Add three times the amount of white vinegar. Shake it until the two liquids are mixed together.

Go to the bathroom, wet the walls (if they are tile) and tub, and spray down all surfaces. Just heavily spray it with the solution. Then walk away and set a timer for an hour. Go back with a bristle brush and scrub. You won’t have to scrub that hard, but you’ll have to go over the surface with a little effort. Rinse the walls and tub, and the vinegar scent disappears along with stains and soap scum. It was kind of amazing.

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A friend of mine died many years ago. He has been on my mind because the twins go to college near where he grew up and where I know he is buried.

I was recently Googling for a song, and a website came up, created by a friend of his, capturing my old friend’s version of that song. His friend had put 8 songs — new arrangements of common songs — that my friend recorded before he died up on the site. And when I hit play, I got to hear him singing it.

It was such a happy surprise because even though I knew he was a musician, I didn’t know this site existed. And I only have photographs, no videos, because it was all film cameras back then. So it felt extra special to stumble upon it.

I really liked this piece on how our brain is in a constant state of betting on the future in real time. The hed and dek sort of says it all: “Your brain doesn’t see reality — it tries to predict it” and “Our brains are gambling addicts placing bets on what reality holds. And sometimes, they bet wrong.”

He kicks off the excerpt (from a longer book) with a story that explains the concept, which boils down to that we don’t calmly observe all the facts before we start moving. We take in enough information and then make a bunch of assumptions. And sometimes our predictions are correct, sometimes they’re not, and sometimes we don’t know what we set into motion by our prediction that wouldn’t have happened if our brains worked differently.

He explains: “You start with a prediction, a top-down expectation of what your brain thinks it’s about to see. Then bottom-up incoming sensory data either confirms this prediction or updates it if things don’t fit. This is known as the predictive processing theory.”

If all of this is true, slowing down, waiting to take in information, and giving yourself time to assess the “bottom-up incoming sensory data” before acting would all point towards better outcomes. The slow and steady tortoise wins not because it keeps plodding on, but because it moves more slowly. It enables its brain to use the data before taking a wrong step.

Keep reading to the end. It gave me a lot of food for thought.

Not sure what #MicroblogMondays is? Read the inaugural post which explains the idea and how you can participate too.

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I’ve found another game. Rung gives you five chances to guess the daily answer to a series of clues, but there is a catch. If you guess wrong, you drop two rungs. If you skip giving an answer, you only drop one. If you drop two, you see the clues you would have gotten along the way. If you’re not certain about the answer, it pays to skip instead of guess. The whole thing takes under 30 seconds to play, so it’s a welcome addition to my evening games.

Enjoy.

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Are you also doing #MicroblogMondays? Add your link below. The list will be open until Tuesday morning. Link to the post itself, not your blog URL. (Don’t know what that means? Please read the three rules on this post to understand the difference between a permalink to a post and a blog’s main URL.) Only personal blogs can be added to the list. I will remove any posts connected to businesses or sponsored posts.

I kept seeing people link to this site, but I didn’t really get it until I clicked over and started reading it. The explanation: “Edward Bellamy once imagined that music on demand would be ‘the limit of human felicity.’ A modern apartment is full of things that once drew the same kind of awe.”

Look around you right now. The everyday objects would be mind-blowing to someone living in another time, and the site walks you through quotes from an invention’s early days or wonder over getting food grown on far-away soil.

But what was eye-opening, to me, was that so many of the quotes were from the 1800s. You forget that the world went through such drastic change in the 19th century. And then think about the change that happened the century after that. The inventions that went from being in select spaces to in our homes to in our pockets. It puts the current day into perspective.

Anyway, I found it super interesting.